| Bobcat Goldthwait Gets Surprisingly Sweet and Lets "Sleeping Dogs Lie" - Page 2 |
Page 2 of 2   Bobcat looking rather striking.. Tomcat Goldthwait, anyone?  Bosworth and Hamilton in "Sleeping Dogs Lie" BG: I think it’s almost just human nature to do one thing in your life that everyone else would be shocked by. Not necessarily bestiality, but something. Q: I think she sees it as a lapse in judgment, as you call it, nothing more. She needs people to accept what she did, not forgive it. Maybe she regrets doing it, kind of, and perhaps thinks of it her as her one “flaw” or mild trespass, but I don’t think she ever condemns herself for doing it, does she? BG: No, and that was important. She is not wrapped in emotional guilt because she thinks she did anything wrong. It’s more like she thinks she did something really dumb and can’t explain why she did it to herself or anyone else. Unfortunately, in our society we’re pressured to be completely honest with the person we’re in a serious relationship with. Which is ridiculous. Q: I mentioned the word “flaw” because I think your film is a lot about the idea of: What is perfection and what is a flaw? I think of the scene where Ed and Amy are being intimate and he worries about his stomach. He does have that “flaw,” and he’s older, too, which might be another “flaw,” yet we see that he’s still “perfect: for her. And with Amy, too—she might have done what some people perceive as a flaw, yet still be perfect. BG: I didn’t realize it before, but I think that’s true about the film. Wow. In a weird way, it’s about accepting our “flaws.” It took you to spell it out to me two years later. It’s kind of funny I didn’t think about that as a theme because the various people I had in my head when I was writing the script were hung up with their “flaws.” So it’s funny you say this. Q: Simply, human beings are flawed. But I think the film says that doesn’t keep them from being perfect. Ed is so lucky to get Amy when John exiles her. One of the keys to the film is that by not accepting what’s done, John risks losing out on who you must believe is the best girl in the world. BG: I think he’s ruining his life. He is totally blowing it. I also think that she is possibly sabotaging their relationship subconsciously by telling him her secret. Maybe deep down she knows that he’s not the right guy for her. I don’t know if that works for anyone else but that was way back in my head. Q: At first I thought that what she says to John, that she sucked off a dog in college, is the worst thing a girl could say to a guy. But is it? If she would say, “I had sex with a foreign terrorist” or “I sucked off a two-headed midget,” John probably would have, in time, the same reaction. He’s going to be unreasonably jealous no matter who or what she had sex with, don’t you think? BG: The dog may be the worst scenario, but in all cases he is going to be jealous. From my personal experience, women seem to deal with past lovers better than men do. It seems men are jealous of who you’ve been with and, I think, women are jealous of who you might be with. If your eyes are wandering as you’re walking together on the street, you’re going to get a rolling pin to the head when you get home. Q: It’s interesting that Amy doesn’t have any problem with John’s darkest secret. BG: Yeah, and his secret is…really gross. Q: She barely reacts and accepts it as an innocent one-time thing. But if she had said the same thing to John—that she had done that exact thing he did with a bunch of guys—how would he have reacted? BG: If he hadn’t done it himself, he probably would have had the same problem as with the dog confession. Q: Which leads to the conclusion, which I guess the film agrees with, that women shouldn’t tell their boyfriends or husbands anything about their sexual pasts. BG: I think a woman could probably tell a mature guy… No? Q: I don’t think you think so either because in your film Amy has learned her lesson and refuses to tell her new boyfriend Ed, who is a mature guy, even though he asks. BG: That’s true. I just know me. I know the older I get that stuff bothers me less. Then again, I’m dating older women now and I can’t get as jealous. They have more baggage because forty-year-old virgins don’t really exist. Q: You say you’re dating. Do you ask these women their secrets, or do you know better? BG: No, I would never get into that--because as a young man I would. It would happen while joking around or as pillow talk, as it comes out in the film. Although I may have acted pleasant or not phased by any of those kernels of information I got, they were all being Rollerdexed. Q: And that is the equivalent of John becoming jealous about a potentially more exciting canine lover and finally wondering how sex was for her with the dog. BG: Sure. That does happen in the movie. I thought it probably would come around to John wanting to see her do it again. Q: After John’s hostile reaction, Amy thinks it’s wise not to tell Ed. Do you think he could have handled it? I don’t think so. BG: I don’t think he could have. She’s right. I think she’s learning unconditional love with Ed. And without sounding too pretentious, I’d say her sacrifice is actually keeping her mouth shut and not feeling that relief you get when you tell someone a big secret. Q: “Sleeping Dogs Lie” isn’t made by a neurotic person like Amy’s brother, but by someone as clear-headed as Ed. So: Were you at all relating to Ed as your stand-in? BG: Yeah. I think that made it harder on Colby French, who played the part. On occasion, he would say something and I’d say, “No, you’d say it more like this.” I’d never done that before with a character. He finally said, “I’m playing you, aren’t I?” And I admitted he was. Q: Ed might have unconditional love for Amy, but she’s reluctant to confirm this by telling him her secret. So what’s interesting is that the person who comes through, unexpectedly, is her father. By finally accepting what she did, he the one who it turns out to have unconditional love. BG: That’s true, though her mother comes around, too. Both parents are shocked but do love her unconditionally. Geoff Pierson does such a great job as her father. He is the only actor in the movie that I actually had in mind when I was writing the script. There are others who are friends, but he’s the only one who I really saw saying a character’s lines, even though he’s not like the father at all. I really love working with him and if I keep making films I hope to cast him again. Q: What about Amy’s line, “I need you to love me, daddy.” It's a great tear-jerker, showing her heartbreak about being rejected by everyone, and it’s my guess that you had a hard time writing it. BG: That’s true. I really wondered about it. I went back and forth on it. But we ended up shooting it and that’s a scene I’m really happy with. Q: Because of such screen moments, I’m sure people have told you or written that the film is sweet, which--because you directed it--surprised them. BG: People do say it’s sweet and I guess I’m not totally comfortable with that. I was really nervous about making a movie that could be perceived as sweet. I think that’s why it’s based in offensive subject matter. I think I was afraid of people saying it’s sweet. Q: So you want viewers to go through the offensive stuff before they reach the sweetness. Is it only those people who do this that get your permission to call it sweet? BG: That’s right!
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